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Is Your Perception Real?

What is your first thought when you see this picture? Yes, that is me. Yes, I am a pastor and I am behind the bar at my favorite restaurant with martini glasses. What else happened after this picture? Does it matter? Would Jesus get behind the bar and let the spirits flow? How does that affect your perceptions of this picture?
Pastors live in a fishbowl that is often unjust. This, often involuntary, fishbowl is not always viewed from a positive perspective focusing on the good. Many of the judgements are made are based on religion and not scripture. The perceptions don’t even have to be based on fact.
This fishbowl is not new. The Apostle Paul and Apollos experienced this same judgement from the baby Christians in Corinth. He spoke of it in his writings to them in I Corinthians 4:1-9.
1 Don’t imagine us leaders to be something we aren’t. We are servants of Christ, not his masters. We are guides into God’s most sublime secrets, not security guards posted to protect them.
2 The requirements for a good guide are reliability and accurate knowledge.
3 It matters very little to me what you think of me, even less where I rank in popular opinion. I don’t even rank myself. Comparisons in these matters are pointless.
4 I’m not aware of anything that would disqualify me from being a good guide for you, but that doesn’t mean much. The Master makes that judgment.
5 So don’t get ahead of the Master and jump to conclusions with your judgments before all the evidence is in. When he comes, he will bring out in the open and place in evidence all kinds of things we never even dreamed of — inner motives and purposes and prayers. Only then will any one of us get to hear the “Well done!” of God.
6 All I’m doing right now, friends, is showing how these things pertain to Apollos and me so that you will learn restraint and not rush into making judgments without knowing all the facts. It’s important to look at things from God’s point of view. I would rather not see you inflating or deflating reputations based on mere hearsay.
7 For who do you know that really knows you, knows your heart? And even if they did, is there anything they would discover in you that you could take credit for? Isn’t everything you have and everything you are sheer gifts from God? So what’s the point of all this comparing and competing?
8 You already have all you need. You already have more access to God than you can handle. Without bringing either Apollos or me into it, you’re sitting on top of the world — at least God’s world — and we’re right there, sitting alongside you!
9 It seems to me that God has put us who bear his Message on stage in a theater in which no one wants to buy a ticket. We’re something everyone stands around and stares at, like an accident in the street.
I think the company of the Apostle Paul is pretty good company. So, I think I’ll hang out in the fishbowl a while longer.
What do you think? Let the comments begin!






I don’t think this is solely a leader’s struggle. Granted, Christian leaders are definitely more public making the effects broader. But this is really a struggle for anyone professing Christ. It doesn’t matter who you are — the moment you declare your faith openly there is an automatic set of standards that will be attached to you. People will watch to see if you will be able to maintain “credibility”. They will stare diligently at your fishbowl to see if you really are a fish at all. It’s human nature… man looks at the outside but God looks at the heart. As Christians we continually strive to see one other through the eyes of Christ. But we can’t expect the same from those that do not share our beliefs.
So, should the whole fishbowl experience make us so uncomfortable, really? Do we have something to hide? We are who God created us to be. I personally am learning to welcome the oogling fishwatchers. I love the Lord and live to serve Him. Yes, I have some very humoan moments but I think there is value in living honestly before others while honestly pursuing the Lord. I can’t help what Christians think of me. But, I hope that the others will look as long as it takes. And, I that maybe they’ll see a fish they have never seen before – - and want to jump in and take a swim.
I work at a Bible School in Mexico and was just last night talking with one of the girls here about this issue. She’s here to learn and prepare to be a pastor or a leader in her church, but when I asked her last night if she wants to be a student leader next year she told me NO! Her reason? Everyone looks at the leaders and expects so much from them! I replied that this is something she just needs to get over since she is planning to be in leadership and will be scrutinized in everything she does, from the clothes she wears to how she disciplines her kids. Is this right? Well, I don’t think so, but she is just going to have to deal with it, I think! So, thanks for that scripture. I think I can use that to encourage her that even Paul felt that way at times… (I wish we had The Message in Spanish!)
you’re nuts and you know it, don’t you? i’m thinking something in my head….
thanks for the free advertising…not just anyone can step behind the bar…we take reservations for that.
great reminder…it’s easy to make assumptions about others until you find yourself in the fishbowl. Unlike you, I have not found it so comfortable.
what do i think? hmmm…
i think i love the sound of banjo’s.
very well written!!
what do i have to say?
nice choice of martini glasses.
nice nike jacket.
nice “im holding martini glasses behind a bar” smirk.
who am i to cast the first stone?
who i am to judge?
jesus the judge. hes the man.
ill let him do his job and ill do mine.
great blog by the way. so true.